While conventional wisdom holds that it’s essential to stimulate a woman’s clitoris in order to bring her to orgasm, conventional wisdom has a habit of forgetting about the g-spot. There is such a thing as the g-spot and it’s the key to treating a woman to mind-blowing vaginal orgasms during sex. While finding the perfect technique and angle of approach requires experimentation—all women are different and there’s no one-size-fits-all approach to reaching orgasm—the following tips will shorten your trip along the learning curve.

Give yourself the best angle to reach her g-spot. This typically involves rear entry, an approach that will give your penis the best angle to connect with the g-spot. The doggy style position is pretty dependable for giving you an approach that will bring the head of your cock right up to that sweet spot, giving you a great chance of triggering a vaginal orgasm.

Intimacy and an emotional connection are essential to her if she’s going to have an intense vaginal orgasm, and the best way to enhance this vibe and perform a rear entry is through spooning. Not only do you get the advantage of a great approach to her g-spot, the lovers’ embrace that the spooning position draws you into brings her warm, loving feelings and increases her arousal. This in turn increases your chances of giving her a mind-bending vaginal orgasm. Everybody wins.

Rear entry isn’t the only way to go—many women have an easier time getting g-spot stimulation if they take the reins and get on top. Cowgirl and reverse cowgirl positions allow women to control the depth and intensity of penetration, and admit it, if anybody knows the best method to reach her g-spot, it’s the lady herself.

These approaches will give you a good start towards delivering that vaginal orgasm she craves. Explore these and other positions that entice you and create a loving environment that will enhance her feelings of intimacy and connectedness. That will help you both enjoy the greatest orgasms imaginable.